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What are you Grateful for?

 Tis the day of Thanksgiving. Although I might get a lot of hate for this even though I already do from a lot of my friends and my family, but I am a Thanksgiving hater from the bottom of my heart. There has just always been something about Thanksgiving that I have always disliked with a burning passion within me ever since I was a little kid. When I bring this up to some of my friends they assume its something do with with culture and tradition but no. My family is the most western thing you will ever meet being in America for almost four generations. Then they assume it's an Arab thing but it is not. My family foes all out for every single holiday. We started Thanksgiving preparations last week with the food and everything and decorating the house. Why am I writing this now? It's because I realized that even though I have a passion of disliking this holiday it carries a lot of significance and holdys a very deep meaning of being grateful for the people around you and the things you have. So what exactly am I grateful for? I am grateful for a plethora of things but I had to narrow it down to a select five. So here we go


1) Mother Dearest:

I am incredibly grateful for my mom, who is not only my greatest support but also my best friend of all time. Having had me at the young age of 20, she has grown alongside me, and her understanding means the world to me. At just 36, she embodies a unique blend of wisdom and youthful energy, making it easy for us to connect on so many levels. Whether I’m facing challenges or celebrating achievements, she is always there, cheering me on and offering guidance with an open heart. Her unwavering love and ability to truly understand me make her irreplaceable in my life, and I cherish every moment we share. I love her so much for being the incredible person she is, and I feel lucky to have her by my side. My mom will always and forever be my bestfriend she is the person that i look up to the most in this entire world. I love my mommy. 





2) My little baby cousin:

I am so incredibly grateful for my little one-year-old cousin Kareem, who truly means the world to me. His bright smile and joyful giggles fill my heart with an indescribable warmth that I cherish every moment we share. Kareem’s attachment to me is something I adore; he clings to me with so much love, and it melts my heart to know he finds comfort in my presence. Every time I have to leave him, a piece of me feels like it's missing, especially since he lives all the way in Jacksonville. I miss him dearly when we’re apart, often daydreaming about the next time I’ll scoop him up in my arms, hear his adorable little laugh, and create even more beautiful memories together. Kareem is not just my cousin; he is my little bundle of joy, and my love for him knows no bounds. Everyone in my family knows not to mess with him. He will not even go to other relatives. He likes to spend his time wrapped in my arms and going wherever I go. There are times I get overwhelmed with family and I go to my room and he follows me upstairs to my room and just lays in my arms. My family knows if they cannot find him that he is probably with me and is in safe hands since I care for him deeply.





3) My uncles:

I am incredibly grateful for my 18 uncles, each of whom has played an important role in my life. Of these, only five are my biological uncles through my parents, but the rest, who are actually my parents' cousins, are celebrated as uncles in our Arab culture. This unique familial bond has enriched my life in countless ways, as these men have all been instrumental in raising me and showering me with their love. I know that I can always rely on them; they spoiled me rotten, indulging my every whim and taking me on unforgettable adventures. They welcomed me into their homes, where I always felt cherished, and they often gifted me with expensive treats that made me feel special. One of my fondest memories is receiving my first designer bag at the age of five a beautiful Dior bag because they saw it as a significant milestone birthday. I still treasure that bag deeply, a symbol of their love and generosity. My uncles are not just family; they are my steadfast support system, always there for me when I need them most. I love them unconditionally, and I am endlessly thankful for the unique bond we share. My uncles are my biggest supporters and being the first niece granddaughter and first everything I have felt their love for the 16 years I have been alive. I sometimes feel bad for their own kids knowing that they will never really feel the same love they gave and still share with me.



4) Books:

I find immense gratitude in the world of books, a haven that has captivated my heart and mind since my earliest days. My love for literature, particularly in the enchanting realms of fantasy romance, has become both a cherished pastime and an indispensable escape. The series that first drew me into this magical universe was none other than Harry Potter, a narrative that I have revisited no fewer than seven times. Each reread, along with the countless hours spent watching the films, has profoundly altered my brain chemistry, leaving me eager for more stories that transport me to whimsical realms filled with adventure and romance. There’s a special joy in curling up with a captivating book in hand, a glass of cold iced coffee by my side, as I surrender to the words on the page and lose myself in the intricate plots and relatable characters. This addiction to literature has enriched my life immeasurably, and I will forever be grateful for the solace and inspiration that books provide.



5) My Car

Equally transformative in my life is my beautiful BMW 430i, a gift that came as a delightful surprise from my uncles and parents. I still find it hard to believe that I now own a car I had long wished for, and the sheer joy it brings me is immeasurable. The day I received it felt like a dream, as I never expected such a thoughtful and generous gift. This car is not just a means of transportation; it symbolizes freedom and independence, allowing me to explore new horizons and embark on adventures both big and small. I have always admired BMW for the reason that everyone in my family has one and I have always adorn sports cars and BMW's due to their sleek design, and now, having one of my own, I am filled with gratitude for this milestone. Each time I slide behind the wheel, I am reminded of the love and support of those who made this possible, and I cannot help but appreciate the journey that has led me here.



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